Stating the Obvious: Public Melt-Downs are Embarrassing.

Widowhood is not for the faint of heart. It’s a grueling battle to be appropriate, especially in business dealings, when tears are inappropriate. I’ve come a long way but still have a fair bit to go. Self-expectations of being farther along the grief journey or tougher than the tears don’t help fight the battle. So, everyday I just try to do better, be better and I leave it at that. And still carry Kleenex everywhere, just in case.

I’ve found my Village

I love to walk and have long lamented that I had to drive to a nearby park to walk around it because my town of Vista, Ca has not been walkers friendly. But, thanks to the Vista Conservancy as well as to the city, that is changing and I am now free to move about my town. On foot . . .

Nov. 30th, 2018 is the 730th consecutive #dailyshotofwhiskeykitty

Happy second #dailyshotofwhiskeykitty anniversary everyone! Here’s some of the backstory in case you missed it on the first anniversary of the #dsowk